Marriage is one of the passage of life, from time to time we get invited for church weddings. We see our relatives and friends tying the knot and we become excited for them.
Right before marriage couples usually court, during these time couples spend time together, each partner tries to know more about the other. When the couples feel that they feel that they are now ready to get married, they inform their relatives, then set a date for the wedding.
Counselling sessions are very important for couples who are planning to get married. Women and men have different roles in marriage, during this counselling period, these are the things they are taught. They are taught some of the problems that couples might go through when married and how to solve them. The couple can get the advice from their parents, church leaders and relatives.
We have witnessed cases where at a certain stage in marriage couples start experiencing marital problems. The harmony that they enjoyed in past starts drifting. At such situations it is normal to see couples filing for divorce.
Divorce should be the last thing for any couple, it should only be considered if nothing seems to work out. Couples should consider seeking the services of a marriage counsellor to help them. The counseling can either be done individual, where each couple goes to see the therapist alone or you go for the counselling sessions together.
The marriage counselor in the process of trying to solve your marriage, will begin asking questions like how your marriage got to this point. The therapist will remind you all the good times you shared as a couple, while you were dating and when the relationship was new. It normal to fine couples drifting from one another due to boredom, pressure and other stressful situations that they might be going through in life.
Dispute start to happen in most marriages when couples stop showing love to one another as they did before. The counsellor tries to help you be in the place you were before the marital problems started happening.
Most marriage counselors have published their own books about marriage and how you can have a fulfilling marriage. The counselor can give the couple those books to read and help them in the process of solving their conflict. You can buy copies of such books online, they are many authors who have written about marriage.
After people get married, if they want they can start having babies. Considering most couples are usually busy, they normally look for babysitters to look after the child. When looking for a babysitter before hiring one, it is advisable to do a background check on them.